What is a Handfasting?
A handfasting is a wedding ritual whereby the couple's hands are fastened together with a consecrated cord. The wrapping of the cord forms an infinity symbol. The knot that is tied is a symbolic representation of oneness between the couple. The handfasting rite is where the phrase "tying the knot" originates.
Handfasting is an old Pagan custom, dating back to the time of the ancient Celts. A handfasting was originally more like an engagement period, where two people would declare a binding union between themselves for a year and a day. The original handfasting was a trial marriage. It gave the couple the chance to see if they could survive marriage to each other. After a year goes by (a handfasting was once believed to last a year and a day), the couple could either split as if they had never been married or could decide to enter permanently into marriage.
Handfasting is an old Pagan custom, dating back to the time of the ancient Celts. A handfasting was originally more like an engagement period, where two people would declare a binding union between themselves for a year and a day. The original handfasting was a trial marriage. It gave the couple the chance to see if they could survive marriage to each other. After a year goes by (a handfasting was once believed to last a year and a day), the couple could either split as if they had never been married or could decide to enter permanently into marriage.
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Today, Wiccans, Pagans and Nature-centered couples have embraced
handfasting as a part of their wedding ceremony. A handfasting can
either be a legal marriage or a commitment for "as long as love shall
last." But you don't have to be Pagan to have a handfasting. Many
Christian, Jewish, interfaith and non-denominational couples are now
incorporating the handfasting into their wedding ceremony to celebrate their
union. A handfasting ceremony can be tailor-made to suit the couple.
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